Heads up guys!
So, fun story, last semester I signed up for classes for Spring 2015. Even though I had already decided to drop out (again) at the time I was so invigorated by the idea that maybe I just need to stick to it! Which sort of backfired on me as I instantly felt regret when I confirmed my attendance as well. Please don’t be like me and forget that you did until the last moment when suddenly, school is around the corner. I walked in, trying to be brave, and had to physically unregister from the semester. Oddly enough, this was painless part. Until they asked me to go to the Student Success Center and have an interview. Why?!
The secretary was nice enough and slid me this blue sheet which I used to perform a self-interview on why I was dropping out. That wasn’t hard, and I did make light of the situation in a way by responding, “If I had wanted it more then maybe I wouldn’t have been more motivated to stay,” to “… is there anything the individual, or the school, could have done to…” to basically say otherwise. Ye-yuh for bad break-up replies. Hopefully that doesn’t come back to bite me. Goodness, please no.
3rd day of the semester for the students. I receive a letter as I am literally walking out to pick up my laundry downstairs. It is from my old uni and about the refund I got several days ago (almost a week). Apparently I’ve no claim to it and they would like their money back. Not going to lie, I was a little dumbstruck. A lot of questions ran through my mind: for example, why did they give me the refund in the first place? Why don’t I have any claim? And so on. Like rage mashing a button for the anger welling up inside me. Mostly because I had already spent the money on bills, paying off some of my debts, and taking a generous portion to donate into my savings because I need an emergency fund. Everyone needs an emergency fund.
Thankfully I sorted it out (had to call in some aid from my parents). This is what I am advising all dropouts make sure is done:
– please talk to Financial Aid, especially if you pulled out loans. Should be a no-brainer but eh…
– make sure you are officially unregistered
– DO NOT TOUCH THE REFUND
– seek counseling if you need it. Hard and unpleasant business, leaves you muddy feeling.
Short, simple. Get it done. Unlike me who waited forever. Make sure you are up to date on all school charges. It can be bull, and it won’t be fun but reward yourself. Like by eating chocolate. Lots of chocolate…
P.S. With all this debt and managing money, doesn’t it seem like that if you could drop your current identity and all debt attached to it seem a lot easier?